Can I know where the card money was spent?

Yes, you can view the names of your friends and the registered names of merchants for transactions made with them.  

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To view the transactions on your Xare cards:

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Step 1: Go to your Xare profile by tapping the profile icon at the bottom of the home screen.

Step 2: Tap ‘All Transactions’ to view transactions done on all Xare cards.

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